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    Brenda Song Says She Wasn't Allowed to Read for 'Crazy Rich Asians' Because She Was "Basically Not Asian Enough"

    It left her questioning where she fit.

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    Published 25 January 2022 In News

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    Brenda Song is a prolific actress. We first got to know and love her as the airhead heiress London Tipton in The Suite Life of Zack and Cody, followed by The Suite Life on Deck. She then made memorable appearances in The Social Network and New Girl. Now, she stars in Hulu series Dollface alongside Kat Dennings and Shay Mitchell.

    All that to say that Song has an impressive career that's only getting better, and that you'd be forgiven for assuming that she gets to pick and choose which projects she wants to be a part of at this stage.

    But in an interview with Teen Vogue, Song shared the upsetting moment she was denied an audition for a movie she really wanted—Crazy Rich Asians. The film marked an important turning point in Hollywood as essentially the first big-budget Asian-led romantic comedy ever, and Song felt it was a great fit for her.

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    "A lot of people don't know this, but I never got to read for Crazy Rich Asians, ever," she told Teen Vogue. She asked to be considered, but was told she wasn't right for the role of Rachel Chu, which went to Constance Wu.

    "Their reasoning behind that, what they said was that my image was basically not Asian enough, in not so many words," Song said. "It broke my heart."

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    She continued, "I said, 'This character is in her late to mid-20s, an Asian American, and I can't even audition for it? I've auditioned for Caucasian roles my entire career, but this specific role, you're not going to let me do it? You're going to fault me for having worked my whole life?' I was like, 'Where do I fit?'"

    But in the end, the actress had no regrets. "I got myself together and said, 'Brenda, there is only one you, and you can't change who you are. You can't change your past,'" she explained. "I am so grateful for every job that I've done. All I can do is continue to put good auditions out there, do the best that I can—that's all I can ask for." Wise words.

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