The Most Elegant Gifts to Give and Get, According to the Stylish Women in My Life
These presents are so well curated, you'll want them for yourself.
Some gifts are simply so good, you find yourself wanting one too. The kind that weaves into your everyday, making the season feel a little bit brighter. Whether it’s the piece you’re constantly complimented on, the finishing touch to an outfit, or a small ritual that’s become part of your daily rhythm—these are the thoughtful gifts you hope to give and receive.
This year, they're easy to find without losing their special charm. How? I turned to some of the most stylish women in I know to share their favorite presents of the season. This tightly-edited gift guide is shaped by a group whose taste feels distinctive, thoughtful, and endlessly inspiring. I hope you enjoy.
Julia Rabinowitsch, founder of The Millennial Decorator
"Every year, slippers are undoubtedly one of my leading gifts—both to myself and to gift. You truly can never go wrong with a slipper, especially when it's an elevated version. One of my favorites to gift are the Charvet slippers—they're always so appreciated, luxe, and last a lifetime."
Pirrie Wright, founder of Wright PR
"First thing that comes to mind is the Casa Ayllon Aurora pouch. Every time I wear this I get so many compliments—it adds a little flair to the most basic of outfits. The price point makes it perfect for gifting too. And, it's designed by an incredible woman, of course!"
Lydia Zacharis, Net-a-Porter buying manager
"I have been gravitating towards collar necklaces and this one strikes the perfect balance between looking archival/nostalgic, and modern. I find it hard to choose between the different stone colors, so would share the love—the onyx or jade for me and the lapis for a good friend."
"When two of my chicest industry friends mentioned coming together creatively—Savette’s founder Amy Zurek and interior designer Alyssa Kapito—I knew that the outcome would be excellent. Indeed, their home objects are so refined, I would gift myself the small box and a dear friend the leather dish with metal feet, for jewelry and beyond."
Ashley Moubayed, founder of Don't Let Disco
"If you’re someone who gets cold but refuses to let a boring cardigan ruin a perfectly good outfit, this Tibetan lamb collar is your new best friend. It’s cozy, instantly makes you look pulled together, and works just as well with pajamas as it does with a blazer.
"Every time I wear one, I get stopped and asked about it. Honestly, I bought three in different colors—two for myself (because outfits deserve options) and one just to finally have on hand when someone tries to talk me out of mine."
"We reimagined a childhood classic with Kindred Black to create a Mancala game that is both stunning and fun. This isn’t just a game, it’s a piece of blown glass art, complete with hand-carved semi-precious stones and custom silver talisman as the Mancala seeds.
"It’s elegant enough to leave out on your coffee table and always sparks awe and conversation. It’s the kind of gift that makes you want to keep it close but also share the joy with others."
Athena Calderone, founder of EyeSwoon
"When I think of my own family memories as a child, I’m always brought back to playing cards or Rummikub with my dad and our family. Nearly every joyful moment was rooted around the table—playing games, connecting deeply, laughing, and living life to the fullest.
"An elegant, customized Rummikub set is the kind of object that can foster a lifetime of memories for any family. I recently found a beautiful leather set from an Italian brand called Giobagnara sold through Abask that can be embossed and personalized.
"Over time, it will carry all the fingerprints of life—literally and figuratively—from your entire family. It truly feels like the perfect gift, full of sentiment and emotion. To give and to get!"
Neada Deters, founder of Lesse
"A beautiful scarf is such a loving gift. I personally love the unique tassel detail, and the black and brown contrast ensures it will wear well with almost any coat this season."
"This is the kind of gift one might not think to purchase themselves but will find an instant place in any home—and will add an elegant touch to any mantle or dining table!"
"These are my go-to earrings to effortlessly dress up any outfit during the holidays. They would make a perfect present for that friend who's almost impossible to gift!"
Olivia Wayman, founder of Olivia's Shopping Diary
"These candles come with an aura, one that makes you rethink every outfit you’ve ever worn. Not only do they smell intoxicatingly chic, they look even better.
"If you came into my house, you’d think I was part of a cult—due to the sheer amount dotted around. I buy everyone I know these and buy one for myself at the same time, simply because I have no self control, and an attraction to minimal luxury items."
Coco Baudelle, actor and filmmaker
"Agnès B. has the magical ability to make simple things feel very special. The first time I wore a piece of hers was on a photoshoot about five years ago. I was given an iconic black snap cardigan to wear in between shots. It was old, faded and simply wonderful. I was wandering around the website a few weeks ago and found this tee! It made me smile. I love cinema more than almost anything. It’s a perfect T-shirt."
"This candle comes delivered in the gorgeous red Cartier packaging. This scent, Canopée, dances in the air without overwhelming you. It’s very romantic. Mine just ran out, and my heart hurts a little bit."
"I gasped when I first saw these dog beds. They are meant to be stacked for your puppy to feel like The Princess and the Pea! They come in the most beautiful hand block-printed organic fabric designed in India. I have two tiny chihuahuas, and I hope Santa knows they have been very good girls this year!"
"This perfume is ravishing! Lovely and delicate, but it also has that 'girl next door' quality which makes it hard to forget. I don’t wear much jewelry, but I love diamonds, and wearing Madame Grey feels like wearing a small, twinkling jewel. I always spray perfume in my hair, because I love giving beautifully scented hugs."
Madelynn Hudson, founder of M.H. Interiors
"This is a goodie—everyone could use a gorgeous catch all of sorts and I love that it's a very special heirloom piece."
Mona Esser Pennock, founder of be-shen and GEMSUN
"This handmade object is a pure treasure and brightens any room. It’s timeless and playful. I love gifting ethereal pieces that are practical too. Incense holder, paper weight and top-of-book-stable decor - so glorious. I like buying extra for me too, one for each room."
"Truly my go-to gift for anyone! The scents are so refined. One for uplifting energy and one for grounding sweetness. I stock them up like there is no tomorrow."
"All colors are majestic. It can be born so many ways and works as a jewelry piece with the weighted silver ring. It’s a soft and sensual gift that is useful for all seasons."
